Self-confidence is one of the attributes that will help our kids to be successful in life. That does not mean that we encourage our kids to be cocky, precocious, or conceited. We want them to know that they are of great worth but not to be arrogant.
We can increase their confidence by allowing them to use their abilities whenever we can. This includes dressing themselves, doing dishes, mowing the lawn, etc. When our children became young adults both they and I noticed that I did not have all the answers anymore. They were more knowledgeable than I was in many areas. My sons are also more mechanical than I am. My daughters are very sensitive to the needs of others and have wonderful leadership skills.
All of my children are much more technologically savvy than I am. I have learned to rely on them to help me in all my weak areas. This helped me and built their confidence as they became successful adults.
I know that there are some who feel worthless. I really don’t know how to relate to that feeling since I felt loved and nurtured by my parents, extended family members and kind teachers and church members. Our children will be much more able to understand that their Heavenly Father loves them if they are certain that their earthly father does.
Every child needs a firm foundation of confidence upon which they build their life. They must know that they are a child of God and have limitless potential. Our responsibility as parents is to teach them about their potential and help them gain the confidence to pursue that potential.